"A third student has died." These words on Tuesday hit me like a blow to my heart. How could this be? How could even one student be dead? This was in Chardon, practically right next door. My thoughts immediately turned to the murder of my niece this last summer. She was older than these students from Chardon, but she was still so young, and her life was cut tragically short. So I know it happens. Why, then, does this new catastrophe hurt and shock so much?
Three students have died, one is still in the hospital, and one has been released from the hospital. How could this have happened here? Why does this happen at all? How does our society and lifestyle contribute to this, if at all? Or have there always been troubled kids, but they haven't had the means to act out so violently? How do we keep our kids safe from such violence? And from committing such violence? Is it even possible?
The big question—should guns be banned? I don't think so. There would then be as much illegal trafficking in guns as there is in drugs. We have to do the best we can in providing kids with safe places and in recognizing and helping kids who need help.
The killer did not kill himself, and is in custody. Maybe if they (whoever they are) can talk to him, they can begin to understand why someone, especially a young person, would do this. Does it have anything to do with the fact that a teenager's brain isn't fully developed yet? Is there something in a young person's lifestyle we should be watching for? If the family did not have guns would it have made a difference? We will never know. We can only hurt for the families who have lost so much, for the students who will never forget, for the teachers trying to deal with the aftermath, and for the community that has lost so much.
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As I think back to when I was a kid, I remember that there were fist fights all the time. Out behind Teen Club, in front of the library, all over the place. When kids disagree, they often turn to violence in their immaturity, and they don't reason violence through like most adults do. They don't think about the consequences; they think only about winning and saving face in the moment.
ReplyDeleteWhat are the results of this? In my day of fist fights, bloody noses and black eyes. Today, with access to guns, dead kids.